My friend Haylie wrote such a beautifully written post that I mentioned in my last post that honestly says how I feel on the subject, but she writes it so much better than I can. I hope she doesn't mind me sharing it... She has a daughter that is almost 2 & is expecting twin girls the same time I am expecting this little one, so our situations are very similar.

http://studefam04.blogspot.com/2011/04/faith.html

sorry if it's not a link, the iPhone doesn't let me do a lot of things.